Where does the weekend go?

Busy is an understatement to describe our weekend. I was off of work on Friday to take Kaylee to the pediatric cardiologist in Lima. This was the check up that our family Dr. asked for after she fainted in February. As I suspected... everything is fine. He said these things just happen sometimes, especially during the teenage years. He was a little surprised that she has been having these for seven years already; but since they only happen about once a year, he didn't think it was worth medicating her for. He could have done a "tilt table" test to try to replicate her passing out, but that would have just resulted in medication, and he thought it was silly to medicate her all year when it only happens about once a year. Makes sense to me. If it continues to happen into adulthood, we might reconsider.

Saturday Whitney had a gymnastics "meet" here in town. It was really a kind of end of the year show so the parents could see what their kids had been working on all year. Since Whitney is on the team, she was asked to help and to exhibit for the parents the routines involved when you make it to team. I think she was just as nervous as if it had been a real meet. We couldn't make it to the whole thing, because Cassidy also had her first soccer game. We took the camera and camcorder, and by the time we left her game, the battery was dead in the camera, and we had run out of disc space in the camcorder, so couldn't get any of Whitney at her event. Sorry, Whit!

Here are a few shots of Cassidy's game, though. This is the first year that Upward has sponsored soccer, and she loved it. She has played indoor soccer for years, but was never a big fan of outdoor soccer...until now! She scored four goals!

Then I came home and cleaned house; went to the grocery; Jeff and Cassidy went to softball practice; Whitney and I walked over to look at prom decorations; went to the grocery store; made supper; and walked back over to watch "promenade."

Today Kaylee and Whitney had their last dance competition of the season - luckily, right her in VW at the PAC. Whew! After that, I cleaned the kids' closets and dressers to prepare for a garage sale we are planning for this coming weekend. I hope the weather cooperates.

Another busy week looms ahead. I guess I had better go start to prepare...

Bad Blogger

I can't believe what a bad blogger I have been lately. I haven't posted since St. Patrick's Day, and here it is, after Easter. I really don't mean to wait until holidays, it just works that way. I feel like I don't have much new to say I guess, so have avoided putting the "same old stuff" on here.

For instance, gymnastics finally ended. Whew! I know these pictures aren't great, but here are a couple more shots of Whitney's final meet:



She had a nice season, and is now moving on to other things....like softball. This year she is playing for Convoy. The past two years she has played for Ohio City. We switched for a few reasons, but mostly so she could play with her good friend, Saige. Cassidy decided not to play, so we figured Convoy is just about as close, so why not. Then, Cassidy changed her mind, and wanted to play. We have been happy with her experience in OC - so now, I have kids playing in two different cities. Not real bright on our part, but it will make summer interesting.

At Whitney's last meet, they had activities set up for the kids. Cassidy conquered the rock wall - easy and medium levels. She got mad at me when I wouldn't let her try the hard level. Cassidy is also getting ready for soccer. This kid never stops.

We have been busy with more remodeling/redecorating:



Here is a shot of our bedroom, after repainting. Finally! We had not painted it since moving in, and the prior owners apparently liked to decorate by painting cats...interesting. It looks soooo much better. Our room is huge, so it took forever. There are additional projects in the works, but we'll save those for a surprise!


Easter was fun. I don't have any good pictures of the kids decorating eggs. Kaylee's boyfriend came over to decorate with us, and I forgot to get any. (She wouldn't have let me anyway!) We then went to Bellefontaine (Kaylee drove) to visit my family. Here are some pics of the Easter egg hunt.

Lily

Sophie (and my sister, Terry)
Ethan

Okay, technically Ethan didn't hunt for eggs since he is only a few weeks old. Ethan and Sophie belong to my niece, Ali. Her husband is in Iraq. He left in February, and Ethan was born in March. He won't be back until December or January. I can't imagine my husband being in Iraq and me with two little ones - I don't know how she does it.

That is all I have time for right now. I have to see how Cassidy is doing (she came home sick from school today), and get my laundry out of the dryer. The excitement just never ends around here.

Happy St. Patrick's Day?

I can't believe that the last time I posted was Valentine's Day, and here it is St. Patty's time. Where has the time gone? I'll spare you the details, and post some pictures.

Cassidy, showing some "D-Fence"

Taking a much needed break.

Cassidy met Abby on her team. Turns out, they are related.....like 5th or 6th cousins or something. They kind of hit it off.

We've also been really busy with gymnastics. Whitney, warming up:

We attended the "Arnold Fitness EXPO" in Columbus, hosted by Arnold Schwarzenegger himself. He was there, but we never saw him. (There were literally tens of thousands of people there.) However, we did manage to spot Lou Ferrigno:

Whitney and her friend Saige had some fans in the stands:

Here they are marching in for their meet in Cincinnati:

I'm even attempting to load a video here. I've never done this before, so I hope it works.

Cassidy hurt her finger really bad at her last basketball game. It called for a trip to the Dr.'s, a splint, and two sets of x-rays. Not broken, but badly jammed.

Jeff is in Cincinnati for work all week. Then, we head back to Columbus this weekend for a dance competition. This time of year is just too nuts.

Until next time...

Happy Valentine's Day

I'm a little late, but better late than never. I hope everyone had a wonderful Valentine's Day with the ones you love.

I'm sounding like a broken record, but we've been really busy. I finally got the van back a little over a week ago. So far, so good. I'm glad we have it back. We're heading in to a really busy travel time - gymnastics meets and dance competitions in Toledo, Cincinnati, Columbus, etc. I hope the new transmission holds out! :) I'd hate to be stranded somewhere.

Jeff won't be able to make it to all of these events with us - he'll be working some weekends. Not that I'm complaining! He just dodged a big layoff at his company. He heard the rumor and two days later they got rid of about 30-35 people. He wasn't one of them! I think he was shocked, since he is still fairly new there. We are just used to being the ones to get the short end of that stick, so were surprised when he wasn't called in to the office. Some of them had been there 10-20 years. As happy as we were, I can't help but feel for those people and their families. I pray this economy turns around soon!

Kaylee has had some excitement also. A week ago Friday (on Feb. 6th), I got a call from the school that she had passed out in Health class. (I guess if you are going to faint, Health class is as good a place as any.) It was right at the end of the day, so they did not want to put her on the bus and asked that I come and pick her up. By the time I got there, the teacher, nurse, and guidance counselor were all sitting in a "sick room" with her. She was still a little shaky, but they said her color was much better. The teacher had been talking about bones when she started to feel woozy. She went to put her head down on her desk and that is the last thing she remembers. She actually fell out of her seat and hit her shoulder on the desk next to her. The whole class just got really quiet.

This is actually not new for Kaylee. I've tried to remember all of the times she has fainted, and it averages about once a year since 2nd grade. The first time was on the morning of her First Communion while my niece was trying to curl her hair. We have had her to the Dr. and ran all kinds of tests including blood work and an EKG. The school nurse recommended I call our family Dr. and let him know that it happened again. I did that, and he'd like to see her again since she is getting older now. I'm sure everything is fine. I think she is just a fainter. We're all joking about what her Wedding Day will be like! :)

This past Friday, she received a delivery at the end of the school day. Her boyfriend had these delivered to her:

She then went to his house on Saturday night, and he also gave her perfume...... Ah, young love!

I don't have much else for news. I've been trying to get some house work done. Jeff is in the process of sanding and priming our bedroom walls to prep them for a new coat of paint. I hate drywall dust and have a lot more to clean up. UGH!

On a related note, this is what happens when I ask the kids to help me fold laundry...


Now you see what I have to deal with.

The Week In Review

I haven't had time to do a real post. We've been pretty busy. Here is a quick re-cap of the past week:

Saturday - Cassidy had a basketball game in town and Whitney had a gymnastics meet down by Dayton.

The van broke down on the way home. Our friend Dan came and rescued me and the kids while Jeff had the van towed back to VW. (Thanks again, Dan :) Long night.

Monday Cassidy had a "Winter Program" at school.

Tuesday, Kaylee had a dive meet in Defiance.

(These pictures stink and we really need to figure out how to take action shots on the camera.)

Wednesday we woke up to over 7 inches of snow. School was cancelled. Everything was cancelled. YAY.

Thursday I had lunch with Cassidy at school for Catholic Schools week.

It's Friday. I'm tired and going to bed.

I want my van back.

Tomorrow Cassidy has another ball game and Whitney has a gymnastics meet in Columbus. More updates later.

16 things...

Well, I've been tagged by Chantal to post 16 interesting things about myself that you may not know about me. I'm really not looking forward to this because I don't actually think even I know 16 interesting things about myself, but here it goes:

... I am the youngest of six children.

... Actually, the four oldest are technically "half" siblings, but we never refer to each other as that - it's just "brother" and "sister."

... There are 20 years difference between me and my oldest sibling - my sister Suzy. So, since I turned 40 last year, that makes her the big 6 - 0. You'd never guess it if you met her though.

... My parents are both deceased. My mom passed away when I was 28, and my dad when I was 30.

... My mom was one of 13 children.

... She was also a twin. Maybe this is why I always wanted to have twins. I can remember being young (somewhere around 10 or so) and telling my mom I was going to keep having babies until I had twins. Heh!

... I DO have a cousin who was born on the exact same day and year as I was. We always referred to each other as "twin cousins." Is there really any such thing?

... I met my husband in college. We were both dating other people at the time, and the four of us used to play cards together in the lounge of our dorm.

... I actually had no intention of attending college until my senior year in high school, when I decided to take the ACT on a whim. My guidance counselor encouraged me when my scores came back, so I applied to only one school - Bowling Green.

... I wasn't going to go to college due to lack of money. I was only able to finish after earning an Army ROTC scholarship during my sophomore year. However, the military was definitely not my style, so I had to have a "hearing" to get out of my contract with them. Lucky for me, it was during the late 80's, when the military was experiencing serious cuts, and I was able to get out of it by paying them back. It turned out to be a very low interest student loan!

... My only claim to fame is that I was once interviewed on Channel 7 news out of Dayton. We lived in Kettering at the time and I worked in downtown Dayton. There was a murder at a small grocery store that we always used to walk to for lunch, because they also had a food court (weird, I know). The day after the murder the news team was downtown interviewing people, asking them if they were scared, etc. I made the news!

... I recently joined Facebook at the urging of my college roommate, only to realize that I have very few friends. Everyone I try to search for is not out there, so I'm looking like a big loser. I'm contemplating adding fake accounts on Facebook, just so I can "friend" them.

... I had two miscarriages - one before Kaylee and one between Kaylee and Whitney.

... After the second one, I went to a Dr. who told me I have "Anti-Phospholipid Syndrome" or something like that. My body sees the phospholipids that are formed during pregnancy as an infection, and produces anti-bodies to fight it. As a result, I had to give myself shots in the stomach twice a day, starting when we started trying to conceive, all the way through delivery. The shots were of a bloodthinner, so I bruised instantly after each shot. OUCH!

... I am a wimp and have an extremely low threshold for pain. You can imagine what fun I was during the above pregnancies!

... I fainted once when I was pregnant with Whitney. I worked at a temp service in town, and we had to go to a local factory when they would hire one of our employees. We had to walk them out on the factory floor and introduce them to their supervisor. I fainted there and had to ride in an ambulance to the hospital. Low blood sugar or something - no big deal, but I did have a bump on the head afterward!

Wow, reading back through this list, I can see how far from exciting my life is, and is actually border-line depressing. As a little pick-me-up, I think I'll go add those fake friends in Facebook...

I'm now tagging my friend Amber @ http://scottandamberdavisfamily.blogspot.com/. Yes, she is the only one, since I have no more friends!

It's That Time of Year...

Holidays are over, and we settle into the gray days of winter. As much as I try to enjoy it, I have an intense dislike for this time of year. Now is when the weather gets bad and school delays, which wreaks havoc on my schedule. For exmaple -

School delayed 2 hours last Tuesday. I quickly reviewed my schedule in my head, and thought that we should be okay. Kaylee and Whitney catch a ride with a friend, so I usually take Cassidy. On a normal day, K & W get picked up about 7:15 and C and I leave about 7:30. This still gets her to school WAY early. (Like, so early she is usually the first student there and a teacher's aid has to play UNO with her for awhile until other kids start to arrive!)

Let me back up - she could catch a bus at the only bus stop in town, which is about 2 blocks away from our house. She could walk over, or I could drop her off there WAY early. But, it's about 16 degrees out most mornings, without the wind chill factor, so I have a really hard time sending my 9-year old out in that. Yes, I spoil her. And yes, I realize that many kids do this and I walked further than that in the winter as a kid. (No, not 10 miles up hill both ways.)

Anyway...

I called home on Tuesday to remind K & W that their ride would be there about 9:15. Whitney said that Cassidy was asking how she would get to shool, and I said "I'm taking her." End of conversation. We've done this many times before, so I figured she knew the drill. I had a quick meeting from 9-9:15, so figured the timing would be perfect for me to get home about 9:30...two hours later than we usually leave. Well, my meeting ran over and I didn't get out of it until 9:30. I knew Cassidy would be waiting for me so I grab my purse and look at my work phone - only to see my voice mail light blinking. Do I check it now or wait until I get back? I check it quickly and find two messages from Cassidy. The first one was pretty normal: "Hey mom, it's Cassidy. I'm just wondering when you are going to pick me up. Maybe you are on your way now. Thanks, bye." or something like that. The second one was much more panicky. "Mom, it's Cassidy, and you're not here yet." Soft crying. "I'm not sure how I'm getting to school." More crying. "Please come and get me."

I run out of work dialing my cell to tell her I'm on my way and reassuring her that it's okay. When I get home her face is red and her eyes are swollen from crying. I feel like the worst mother in the world. Only one week in to the new year, and my nomination for "Mother of the Year" is in the toilet. Of course, we have several discussions about what to do in the future if she can't reach me, telling her I'd never forget her, and reminding her that she is still getting there way early, etc.

Later in the day I check my cell phone and see she had also left two messages there. Again, the first one is kind of relaxed, but by the second one you can't even understand her, she is sobbing so hard and out of control. She ends the call with "pleeeaaase, pleeeeaaase, pleeeeeaaaase, call me back!" Horrible. Absolutely horrible.

To top it off, on Thursday of last week, I'm in the middle of hosting a web conference at work, and another line in my department starts to ring. A co-worker answers it and takes the message that Whitney has gotten sick at school. It happened right at the end of the day, and they didn't want to put her on the bus and risk her getting sick on there, so she is in the office and they need someone to come and get her. Perfect. I wrap up as quick as I can and run to school to pick her up. She must have had a touch of the flu or something.

These things were somewhat easier when Jeff worked in town because between the two of us, one of us could usually slip away from work. Now it is all on me. Being a working mom is the hardest thing in the world. I know that being a stay at home mom is no walk in the park, but being torn between work and home stinks. Those are the days you feel like you are not doing your kids justice. I tell my girls all the time that if at all possible, they should try to stay home when they have a family. Or at least have a flexible job, or be their own boss, or work from home...I'm not sure what the answer is.

I realize that I'm fortunate to have a job, but it's just really stinky that society has become so money-centric that I have to work just to provide some nice things for my family - like food. Of course, it's somewhat easier now that they are older. Plucking a sleeping infant out of their crib to put them in a cold car seat and drag them to a sitter was gut-wrenching most days.

Okay, enough boo-hooing. Sorry - but I feel better now.

On a completely different topic: remember the jigsaw puzzle we were working on after Christmas? We finished it this past weekend:

This puzzle kicked our behinds! I'm not kidding. There were several times we had to stop and take a whole section apart to re-do it because the same pieces would fit in multiple locations. I was getting tired of seeing it half-done in the middle of the living room, so threatened to take it apart. Jeff decided it was time to just get it done, so we spent almost all Saturday afternoon bent over the card table and finally knocked it out. NOW, I get to take it apart!